Be Kind Like Milly

January 24 - February 16

Milly Rose Zellmer came into our world on January 24, 2018, and left it far too soon on February 16, 2023. This was three weeks after her fifth birthday.

Milly was a beautiful, blue-eyed princess with two of the cutest dimples you have ever seen. In the five years Milly blessed this world, she won the hearts of everyone she met. She made friends with strangers everywhere, from her siblings's sporting events to the local grocery store. Milly loved fiercely and had the biggest heart for ALL people and furry animals. Milly’s smile would light up the room and her hugs were everyone's favorite. Her laughter was infectious, and it instantly made everyone around her feel her love. To know Milly was to love Milly.

This year, in memory of Milly's beautiful heart and to honor her short but remarkable life, we are asking family, friends, and strangers alike to engage in random acts of kindness. Milly spread so much love and kindness in this world, we want to encourage people to do the same thing by showing kindness to those around them. Milly had a special way of making everyone around her smile. We would love for these "Milly Moments" to be a part of everyone's life, especially from her birthday to the anniversary of her death. This will help us smile as we remember her beautiful heart.

From January 24 until February 16, we are asking you to do random acts of kindness. Spread the word to all you know so they can do the same. To accomplish this, after you have done something kind, please leave behind this Kindness Card that shows you did the act in her honor. If you are local to Pella, we will have cards available in early December at the following locations.

Pella, Iowa:

Oskaloosa, Iowa:

Knoxville, Iowa:

Albia, Iowa:

Des Moines Area, Iowa:

The cards available for pickup will have a Milly bracelet attached that the recipient can wear and follow along on Milly's Travels Facebook Group, if they wish. If you are not local, you can print a Kindness Card out here.

Once you've done your act of kindness in Milly's honor, we would love to have you join us on Milly Moments Facebook Group and post what you did and how the recipient responded (if known). We are excited to see the stories of how you honored our sweet girl's memory. As this page lights up with your stories of creating these Milly Moments, it will be a joy to hear how Milly's spirit is making this world a more beautiful, kind place for those of us she left behind.

With Love,

The Zellmer Family

Acts of Kindness Inspiration

  • Donate a book to your local library in honor of Milly.  Her favorites were “We’re going on a Bear Hunt, What a Wonderful World, The Little Blue Truck” books

  • Pay for the person’s coffee/meal behind you

  • Take treats to the teachers at your local school, local police/fire department, hospital

  • Tip your waiter EXTRA

  • Offer to shovel your neighbor’s sidewalk when it snows

  • Donate groceries to your local food bank

  • Donate pet supplies to your local humane society/shelter or walk the dogs

  • Send toys/books to a children’s hospital

  • Take treats to your workplace

  • Have your child send a loved one a homemade card

  • Donate a book to your nearest free little library

  • Take a  meal to someone who may be struggling

Let’s share kindness like Milly together

Here are the three steps:

  1. Complete an act of kindness

  2. Leave a Kindness Card behind for the person receiving it

  3. Post on Milly Moments Facebook Group to tell us what you did

Share your acts of kindness with us